Just say no to sleepy meetings.
Low energy. Distracted. Slow-paced. Lacking depth.
The problem with remote meetingsā¦over and over...and over and over...can be captured in one word.
Sleepy. Keeping the energy in the room is no small task!

If you're finding yourself in a remote-meeting rut, here are six ways you can breathe new life into your virtual conversations, whether formal or informal:
1) Drive it home
Slow virtual meetings feel 10x slower than slow in-person meetings. If you (or someone on your team) has the virtual floor in a meeting, set the pace. Know your point, know where are going, and drive through to the point. It takes a little extra effort, but your team will pick up on this energy. Be clear, be focused, and get straight to it.
2) Call people by name
āAnyoneā¦Buellerā¦ā If thatās you some days, donāt dismay, itās not just you! People donāt jump into a virtual conversation in the same way they do in real life. We hesitate because we always seem to jump in at the same time as someone else (you go aheadā¦no you go ahead)! Once youāre asking good questions (see #4), donāt be afraid to ask, wait a few seconds, and then call a name. Then, ask them to pass the torch when theyāre done!
3) Story tell
Got a great customer story? What about a great employee story or a great industry story? Stories invite us in. Stories engage and captivate. Stories have a way of showing instead of telling. The key is to tell stories with a purpose. Use them to reinforce your core values or your vision. Stories donāt need to be epic or outrageous to engage. Iāve never been a Master Chief of the Navy or had a near death experience, but Iāve have brought a roomful of people to tears telling a story about waterskiing. Ordinary is relatable. Story is compelling.
4) Ask better questions
Generic questions spark generic answers. Specific questions spark specific answers. A generic āhow are you?ā will almost always get a generic āFine.ā Specific questions like āWhatās been the best part of your day so far?ā canāt NOT be answered with specificity. You canāt NOT learn something when you ask specific questions. Here are a few you can try:
- whatās challenging you about this information?
- what did you learn from this?
- what was most useful from todayās meeting?
- what one word would you use to describe this [meeting/presentation/discussion]?
5) Leverage breakouts
Breakout rooms foster depth of conversation, and also add contrast. Using breakouts to debrief a presentation or come up with ideas is doable in pretty much every technology platform these, and can get you through discussions much more quickly. Donāt forget to jump around from room to room if youāre the meeting facilitator.
6) Cameras on
I once attended a conference where the host said it this way: You would never show up to a live meeting with a paper bag on your head and your name written across the front. Why do it virtually? There are exceptions, of course, just ask for them to be exceptions.
7) Try a 60 second Presentation
I recently joined a networking forum called M3Linked. The forum is by far the best virtual networking Iāve ever experienced, for one reason: 60 second presentations. Every member gets 60s to answer three questions: What have you mastered? Whatās your mission? What motivates you? What if you started your next managerās meeting with these three questions, followed by 10 minutes in a breakout room?
8) The Bottom Line: Incorporate Contrast
When it comes to keeping things interesting, we humans need contrast. Variety really is the spice of life. The sameness of life over the last 12 months (in so many ways) that has worn thin. Remote meetings are no exception.
With a little bit of planning and creativity, you can significantly shift the energy in the Zoom Room, for more productive, invested conversations.
At the end of the day, meetings are where the leadership work gets done. Letās make them lively!
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